In November 2009 I attended a conference where a good friend of mine, Enzo Calamo delivered a talk on “Chief Family Influencer” (CFI). This was a talk about a team approach to consolidating Family Wealth.
Have you decided or chosen your Family’s CFI? In his talk, Enzo discussed who is a CFI? A Chief Family Influencer is anyone who is a key decision maker in the family/business or has a direct influence on key family or business decisions. A CFI influences others through empathy, competence, reliability, consistency, and is trustworthy.
The CFI will focus on the mission, vision, values and goals of the family or business. At Concierge Family Office we call this your “ LIFE PURPOSE”.
Most families and businesses don’t know what they don’t know! They are not prepared to go from Capacity to Incapacity and many times end up with substitute decision makers running the family and/or business.
When you have a CFI like Concierge Family Office, they are around when Incapacity or life dictates having a competent Influencer who understands your goals and helps make the decisions you would want made or encourages effective collaboration.
An unmanaged family team can end up having conflict, limited progress, no common direction, no cost controls, and consequently a lose lose result.
Harvey Mackay said, “A dream is just a dream. A goal is a dream with a plan and a deadline. And that goal will remain a dream unless you create and execute a plan of action to accomplish it”.
Charles Munger, Vice Chairman of Berkshire Hathaway Corporation, says, “Every person is going to have a circle of competence. And it’s going to be very hard to enlarge that circle… So you have to figure out what your aptitudes are. If you play games where other people have the aptitudes and you don’t, you are going to lose”.
The chances of your family or business needing a CFI or Concierge Family Office is great when you understand:
By 2031
A. “One in four Canadians – an estimated 9.8 million – will be a senior, up from roughly one in 10 today”. Statistics Canada, 2008, quoted in the Globe and Mail, May 26, 2008.
B. Two million Canadians are caring for older relatives. American Association of Retired People, 2008.
The transition from Capacity to Incapacity can be distinct such as a stroke or coma. Or it can be gradual such as natural aging, illness, grief, and many other factors.
Concierge Family Office works with your trusted professional before, during and after such events to make sure that your LIFE PURPOSE goals occur the way you want them to. Concierge Family Office is here to help make all of your plans grow properly.
Have your current advisors helped you create a Post-Incapacity IPS (investment philosophy statement) with details and specifications for your investments etc.
Have you been advised to have:
A. A comprehensive or limited power of attorney?
B. Multiple lawyers with different powers
C. Someone designated to continue your previous pattern of gifting and donations or support for disabled family members.
D. Make it clear and specify the amount of donor wealth to be spent on personal care vs. estate.
Concierge Family Office will promote open communication so that your family understands your situation and your decisions pertaining to resuscitation instructions, funeral arrangements and funding etc.
Remember your Power of Attorney cannot be created after Incapacity occurs.
Call Concierge Family Office for your free initial consultation to have a discussion about how we can help you face life’s difficult situations and put proper planning with the right professionals in place, before a crisis appears.
Concierge Family Office works openly and effectively with your current trusted professionals, or we can happily recommend qualified, talented professionals to fill any voids, which may be present.
“You can’t make great decisions based on poor information”
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